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Mar 15, '08 1:07 PM
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Decisions are made everyday. Be that as it may, there are decisions in our life that are just really hard to make.

Decisions that would define our future… decisions that will seal our fate.

Some of us would say that it’s not really hard to overturn a decision and pursue what we thought before was a ridiculous idea. But come to think of it, it is a waste of time to change everything in a middle of something. Effort, resources and time had already been wasted just because of a wrong decision made in a time of anxiety and pressure.

So if this is the case, is there really a formula for everything? Is there a way to make things easier in the beginning so that we could have a smoother ride as we go along? How I wish answers can be available in a snap of a finger, because to be honest, I think that I am making this excuse just to procrastinate a decision I have been trying to fathom for the last 4 years. *sigh*

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soultosnatch wrote on Mar 15

hahaha! ewan ko ba kung bakit nanniniwala ako sa "every decision is right". hehe. na kailangan natin panindigan ang bawat decision na ginagawa natin sa buhay. kung magkaproblema along the way dahil sa decision na yun, there's always a way out. kumbaga, wala namang problema na walang solusyon.

ganun ang buhay, komplikado. hehehe. but life is still fuckin good! hahahaha!

may sense ba? hahahaha

dynechelle wrote on Mar 15

hehe medyo iba opinion ko but I agree with you na dapat panindigan natin ung mga decisions natin sa buhay. But for me it doesn't necessarily mean that "every decision is right". And we don't actually have to make the decision first to know if we are making the right one or the wrong one. Coz if we will make decisions left and right with the thinking that every decision is right, we haven't really thought about the pros and cons. For me, decision and opinion are different, kasi sa opinion walang mali walang tama, pero sa desisyon feeling ko may tama and may mali, dahil may mga desisyon that would affect others in a not so positive way.

Siguro mas ok siguro if we will have this thinking na "there should be no regrets in every decision we make," kahit na ba tama o mali ang desisyon mo, you should have no regrets that you made the decision. Like what you said, dapat panindigan natin kung ano man desisyon natin in life. =)

hazelliban wrote on Mar 15

ME? Hmm... Fickle minded siguro... when it comes to decision making pa-ibaiba... minsan kung san ba ko comfortable, masaya, and considering the "internal" or my strentghs kumbaga... pero I must admit na most of the time mas naiisip ko yung gusto, magiging epekto o iisipin ng iba to the point na minsan di na ko sigurado kung masaya pa ba...

Pero tama nga, no regrets dapat... mali man o tama for us yung naging decisions... No regrets dapat! At least we learned/we will learn from mistakes. =)

P.S Whatever your dilemma is, you could always share it to me... =)

alyssazyryl wrote on Mar 17

i think prayer is the best answer to a dillemna super...alam ko barubal akong tao and all but when i have life changing dillemnas i always consult God. minsan even if you're not asking he'll give you a sign. =)

lowlabuhbuh wrote on Mar 17

...and just to add up to your previous conversation here.. i think, to be able not to have regrets is to always look for the bright side of the "bad/wrong" decision's results. you have a big God over a big problem. He knows everything. duh?? He's God. :)

altolhen wrote on Mar 18

lowlabuhbuh said

i agree! there's nothing He can't do.. c'mon!

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